Anytime a woman shares anything other than her strength, she is demoralized for it. It is not uncommon for society to cheer on a strong, educated Black woman who is doing her thing. However, as soon as sis shows emotion, it's a certified wrap.
"Unless you're marrying someone who never plans to level up from the position they're in when you unite with them, it's not realistic to think you'll never have to play this role for another being.
Why is it necessary to pray about everything? I've often wondered the same thing. Some things should just be left to work themselves out, right? For much of this year, I've taken that risk. Just hoping things work out. But God isn't just going to insert Himself into all of our situations. Sometimes, He only comes when called, because it is necessary for us to learn to lean on Him. Not the other way around.
Have you ever ran into an ex and couldn't say what was actually on your mind to say at the time? Yeah, that happened to me yesterday. I have always prayed I would never run into an old fling or... Continue Reading →
I was comfortable with the rough rider, the one who I knew wouldn't commit and would do me wrong because at least I KNEW what he was about.
Relationship issue #1: I often came off as controlling in an effort to ensure I would not be left alone.